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My husband and I were like this before our first trip together. I had been before we were together a few times and he hadn't been since there was more than just the Magic Kingdom. He kept saying "You are going to be bored of Disney before we even get there" and "I don't want to hear anymore about this trip you are wearing me out." Then we went and he fell in love with the magic. Now he says "You plan all you want just let me know when we get there cause if I help you plan I will get too excited." So yes I used to plan in secret and have two tabs open and switch when I seen him coming in the room. But now I can sit in the living room computer wide open. So you are not obsessed. You are Disney normal (whatever that means).

I think for most of us here, Disney planning is what compensates for the fact that we can't live at Disney World. Tell hubby to look on the bright side, there are way worse things you could be obsessed with.

Husband speaking

Unless you're Disney planning and obsessions are causing others a hardship (ie spending money thats needed for other things, like the mortgage, or depriving people of time that they would love to spend with you), I'm not sure why anyone would care how much time you spend on this stuff. I'd hate for someone to tell me what I could be interested in.

Glad I could help bring you some clarity. I don't think you should have to plan in secret, but I understand competing time constraints very well.