Looking for some opinions/advice. DH and I got married in 2013, and there was a lot about the day that was magical, but some other things I wasn't too happy about (arguing with my mother in the lead-up about a sensitive family issue; growing apart from two of my bridesmaids since then etc). Right up until the last minute, I said, 'we should have just eloped' and part of me still really wants to do that. It's a long time in advance to be planning, but I'd like to have a private vow renewal for just us in Disneyworld for our five year wedding anniversary (in 2018). I'm thinking super chilled, just on our resort grounds so we don't need to go through Disney, pretty dress, sandals or sneakers and wedding mouse ears.
My question is thus:
Is five years too early for a wedding renewal if it's something we really want to do? I've read a lot of stuff online saying we'd just be showing off or that it's too soon, but my viewpoint is that if it's just a romantic treat for us to reaffirm our devotion to each other, where's the harm?
I'd love to hear your thoughts and ideas for this trip, or even if you think it would work/be okay to do? I know Robyn and Sy renewed their vows and it looked amazing so we wanted to do something kinda similar but just for the two of us.
Hahaha also I know two years in advance is too soon to dress hunt but it won't stop me trying.