Couldbe our last trip together!

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Couldbe our last trip together!

Jan is not doing well. The results of her recent petscan showed the cancer back in her lungs. Very fast growing and agressive. Her cough is from that and is getting very painful and not stoppable at this point.
The radiation Dr. who has treated all the other times of her cancer ( five times before this) has said there is nothing else he can do. We see her chemo Dr. tomorrow. He has also treated her five previous times and is not yet sure if any more can be done. Jan would not let me cancle our trip to the World as it will most likely be our last .
Mickey might just have some magic left for us.
Joe

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Prayers coming to both you and Jan that this latest recurrance can be slowed or stopped. Enjoy your vacation!

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I'm so sorry to hear that, that's so sad sad I hope things look more positive for you both soon. Have an amazing time on your holiday xx

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Sorry to hear that Joe. sad

We'll be thinking about you.

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I hope this turns out OK.
This is an Irish Song Of Blessing. Jan and I did this about three years ago. At her request It will be played at her service. It is something we wish for all of you who have become our cyber friends
Joe

.http://www.esnips.com/doc/68ffd514-65bb-4c90-82b3-050fa547d8b6/Song-of-Blessing

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Really sorry to read this Joe. Fingers, toes and everything else crossed that something can be done. I hope you manage to pack enough memories into this trip to keep you going.

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I am so so sad to read this Sad I hope you have lots and lots of magic xxxxxx

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Hi Joe -

Very sorry to hear about Jan's condition - we're sending all our thoughts and prayers your way and hope you find some magic at Disney.

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sad sad sad That breaks my heart. I consider myself blessed to have heard your story & I've loved every second of it..and I hope for the best for both you.

Have a great, great magical trip.

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So sorry to hear this. Have a wonderful trip. Thoughts and much magic being sent your way from our house.

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Our prayers and thoughts are with you Joe. You've shared some of your most precious moments here with our little family we have gathered here on WDWFG and we can see & feel the love you and Jan have for each other every time you post something. muchlove We are always thinking about you!

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Prayers for you here, Joe. Although we've only just met, your story has touched me deeply. Please, have a wonderful, restful, restorative, magical trip. You've inspired me to make memories every single day with my loved ones. Thank you both for that.

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Joe, I am at a loss for words to express my feelings but all my prayers and heartfelt thoughts go out to you and Jan.

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Joe, you've proven time and time again that if anyone can create and make the most of the magic, it's you and Jan. I know that this trip will be precious to you the same way the others have been. I hope that Jan's pain subsides enough for you both to enjoy the experience together, as you always have.

As always, we're thinking of you.

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Joe,
My prayers are with you. Enjoy and make the nost of this trip to the world. If there is anywhere to make memories or make miracles happen it is there. My thoughts will be there with you.

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Be sure to have as much fun as you can, Joe!

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Yesterday we got some hope. Her Chemo Dr. said he would try Chemo after we get back from Disney.
Joe

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subvetss wrote:
Yesterday we got some hope. Her Chemo Dr. said he would try Chemo after we get back from Disney.
Joe

That's good news. It's always good to have some options. Hopefully she can have enough fun to offset the un-fun of chemo.

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Had to cancel our reservations tonight. Jan just can't make it.
Joe

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subvetss wrote:
Had to cancel our reservations tonight. Jan just can't make it.
Joe

sad sad I'm so sad to hear it! I hope she gets to feeling better very soon.

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When I spoke to a young lady about canceling she told me there would be a 'late canceling penalty' since I was only 2 days out. She then asked me why I was canceling. After I told her about Jan's condition she said how sorry she was for us.
About 10 minutes later she called me back to tell me she was trying to get the penalty removed, which was 1 night room fee. After another 15, or so, minutes she called back to tell me it was done and that a lot of prayers would be coming from the
Disney family.
On a corporate level WDW might be business as usual but on a personal level they are makers of 'The Magic'.

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subvetss wrote:
Had to cancel our reservations tonight. Jan just can't make it.
Joe

That's sad, but it might be for the best. You probably wouldn't have fun if she wasn't feeling up to it.

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Well that's a little bit of Disney magic for you two.

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Really sorry to read that you can't make this trip. At least the Disney CM managed to work some magic for you on the refund. With any luck Dr. Chemo will ba able to work some magic too.

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Joe, I'm sorry to hear you had to cancel the plans. Glad that the chemo doctor has a few more tricks up his sleeve, though!

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We are lifting you both in prayer. I'm so thankful Disney CS came through...they haven't failed me yet when it really counted, and I'm glad they went above and beyond for you.

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