Julie, although I have not been to the F&W, I don't think I would like it either for all the reasons you mentioned. I found myself uncomfortable at times even during "regular" times this summer with the drinking behavior of some adults in Epcot. I was especially disturbed in the Mexico ride this summer, when a rowdy group of men ethnically harrassed the CMs dressed in their Mexican dresses, calling them stereotypical names that bordered on inappropriate. There were kids there too. I actually waited to get on a boat when they were way ahead, as you could hear them in the ride too.
I don't know if Disney does anything with public drunks. This is why I sorta like MK for that...no alcohol. I haven't seen the drinking thing as bad in HS either at night.
I too am accepting of those that do drink, but the behaviors sometimes cross the line.
It does seem that Epcot has become the place to drink around the world. And I totally agree that this is fun, but sometimes out of hand. And Walt would not approve.
Any thoughts?