New update!
Sooooooo I managed to get the rest of my ADR's booked, and it was as easy as pie once my second reservation at the Grand opened up. I ended up calling the help desk, I told the guy on the phone that it was some sort of problem with my reservation which wasn't letting me book 180+10 but he just didn't want to know... told me to make them all on the phone instead 
But sure enough, once the reservation at the Grand opened up I was able to book all of the rest of my ADRs.
We also added on Maya Grill with our parents, Sy decided that he wanted to go back there and take everyone so that was added - luckily that wasn't a hard one to get so I just made it at 180 days.
So here is the final line up...
16th Sanaa 7:10pm for 7
17th 1900 Park Fare 8:30am for 7
19th Via Napoli 7pm for 6
20th Coral Reef 6pm for 7
21st Garden View Tea Room 2:35pm for 6
22ndTeppan Edo 6:10pm for 7
23rd Grand Floridian Cafe 9:30am for 6, 'Ohana 6:30pm for 14
25th Hoop De Doo 8:30pm for 7
26th Whispering Canyon Cafe 10am for 6, Maya Grill 7:30pm for 6
27th The Plaza 7pm for 3
28th Beaches and Cream 2:30pm for 3
29th Captains Grille 10am for 2
30th Trails End 7:20pm for 2
31st Chefs des France 12:40pm for 2
1st Kona Cafe 10am for 2
3rd Tokyo Dining 7pm for 2
The plan has also taken some bashing since the park hours have been released, then the DVC Sunrise Safari opened up. Heck the plan is looking so full I don't know how anyone can come to Disney for less than 2 weeks! There will most likely be a few more tweaks to come once the line up of eat to the beat is released and the food and wine seminar list comes out.
For now, this is what the plan looks like...
10th Friday
Finish packing and drop the cat over to Sara's house if we haven't already dropped him off the night before.
Head to the hotel at Heathrow and go for dinner nearby
11th Saturday
Taxi from hotel to Airport
Flight 12:30pm Heathrow to Miami
Pick up car hire
Hotel overnight in Homestead
Dinner (maybe longhorns?)
12th Sunday
Drive to Key West
Stop on route at deer nature reserve & Islamorada for tarpoon feeding
Check into key west hotel
Get dinner and visit sunset pier
13th Monday
Key west tour
Blue heaven for key lime pie
Possibly head over to sunset key?
Bennihana dinner
Drag show
14th Tuesday
Key west
Dolphin boat trip
Historic sea port for dinner
15th Wednesday
Check out of key west hotel
Stop in Everglades to do airboat trip
Stop over somewhere on the way to Orlando, Ft Lauderdale?
16th Thursday
Have breakfast in/near hotel
Drive to Orlando (3 hrs on turnpike)
Check into AKL room might not be ready so will leave bags with bellhop in that case
Meet up with Ruth and go to Walmart
Bring shopping back to room, unpack/sort shopping
Change car for smaller at Disney car centre
Sanaa 7:10pm
TOTWL/swim at hotel/or park if we aren't too tired
17th Friday
1900 park fare breakfast 8:30am
Magic Kingdom morning & afternoon
Afternoon rest
Fudruckers dinner
Hollywood studios evening for Fantasmic (7:30pm)
18th Saturday
Breakfast in room
Animal kingdom
Kobe dinner
19th Sunday
Sunrise safari
Rest lunchtime
Epcot afternoon/evening
Via Napoli (no Ruth) 7pm
Eat to the beat
20th Monday
Typhoon lagoon
Epcot evening
Coral reef dinner 6pm
Eat to the beat
21st Tuesday
Hollywood studios morning
Afternoon tea garden view tea room 2:35pm
MNSSHP
22nd Wednesday
Breakfast celebration tavern
Check out celebration
Golf/things
Epcot (EMH)
Teppan Edo 6:10pm
Eat to the Beat
23rd Thursday
Renew vows
Grand Floridian Cafe breakfast 9:30am
Pop to Walmart to get snacks (though quite possibly do this the day before)
Renew vows
Pictures at AKL and beach club/boardwalk
Hire a boat on seven seas
Ohana 6:30pm
Hallowishes on at 9:30pm
24th Friday
Marceline tour (need to book this)
Magic kingdom morning
Lunch be our guest if can get fastpass
Afternoon swim at hotel
Jellyrolls
25th Saturday
Animal kingdom morning
Culinary food tour of AKL
Hoop de doo 8:30pm
26th Sunday
Whispering canyon cafe breakfast (no Ruth) 10am
Magic kingdom
Maya grill 7:30pm
TOTWL
27th Monday
Check out of AKL
Lunch somewhere? Maybe visit a park?
Check into VGF
Change car
Evening MK
Plaza dinner 6:30pm
28th Tuesday
Ruth home
Beaches and cream lunch 2:30pm
Hollywood studios
29th Wednesday
Captains grille 10am
Blizzard beach
Welcome home Wednesday
Territory lounge for fondue
30th Thursday
Magic kingdom
Afternoon swim in hotel
Trails end 7:20pm
31st Friday
Epcot
Chefs des France 12:40pm
Carriage ride round fort wilderness
Carrie's Halloween party (our friends who live in Orlando are having a Halloween party!)
1st Saturday
Kona cafe breakfast 10am
Animal kingdom
Swim at hotel afternoon/early evening
Texas Roadhouse
2nd Sunday
Seaworld?
MK evening
3rd Monday
Seaworld again if we decide to buy tickets
Epcot evening
Tokyo dining dinner 7pm
4th Tuesday
Check out
MK
Outback at the airport
5th Wednesday
Arrive home to Gatwick
We are gonna be pretty busy huh? LOL
I also stumbled on somewhat of a bargain deal for a hotel at Heathrow for the night before our flight. There's a website called holiday extras which does airport hotels, car parking, trains tickets etc. They have a 'Free if cheaper' guarantee so if you book through them and find it cheaper elsewhere they refund you the whole cost, plus give you what you booked. I've seen lots of people have success with this website at getting their airport parking for free. So one day I was surfing the net and looking at hotels for the night before when I saw that one of the hotels on my shortlist (yes, I'm that organised) was showing up at about PS24 more expensive on the Holiday Extras website than I'd seen it on other pages. So I quickly booked hotel rooms for us all (plus the insurance so I could cancel it if they decided not to honour the guarantee) and called them up. The lady took me through all the details online and sent the info off to the right team (who were on holiday as this was over the Easter holiday) and sure enough, 2 days later I had an email saying that our claim was successful and we would be getting our hotel for free!! Woohoo! So now we have a hotel for the night before our flight to Miami, which is down the road from my dad's favourite Indian restaurant (we used to live in the area and that was where my dad was stationed in the police so he knows the best places to go), all for the bargain price of PS2.49 which was the cost of the insurance.
And the hotel in question? That would be the Novotel. 4/5 on Tripadvisor.
And while I was in the mood for booking hotels, I also booked our Miami hotel 
We all really liked the look of the Hampton Inn Miami Homestead. Its south of Miami which is perfect as we drive south for 20 mins from the airport, we have been to Miami a few times and it wasn't really in the plan for this trip - we would rather get to Key West early the next day, and because of jetlag we would only be getting to the hotel, getting some dinner and then sleeping, didn't seem much point heading into the centre of Miami. Plus its the number 1 rated hotel in the area and has a free breakfast What's not to love about it?
So the To Do list now looks as follows;
Booked so far
Flights
Car hire
DVC at Animal Kingdom Lodge and Grand Floridian
Vow renewal
Hotel in Key West
Hotel in Fort Lauderdale
Hotel in Miami
Hotel in Heathrow
ADR's
Sunrise Safari
Still to do/organise
Marceline tour
Behind the seeds tour
Disney tickets for in laws, the rest of us have bought our tickets now
Things for our vow renewal, and pay the balance.
MNSSHP tickets - Think its just me and Sy doing that with Ruth.
Book Spa & Golf
Buy Memory Maker
Sort the cakes
Do API for flights
Renew ESTA
Book Food and Wine seminars
So payday has arrived and that holiday money was burning a hole in my metaphorical pocket, I couldn't help myself from perusing the trip advisor hotels... A hotel *not* on the shortlist for Ft Lauderdale popped up at a lower rate, 1/3rd lower than it had been on every other search. I had looked at the hotel before now but it had been discounted for being a bit over budget for a 1 night stay mid road trip. It was a gorgeous hotel though and seeing it just 20GPB more than all the other hotels on the list it involved a little more investigation...
I know, bit naughty of me! But they are fully refundable rooms so the way I see it, if she doesnt like it we can always cancel 
