My little guy gets spooked really easily, that harness has kept him from taking off more than once. He is also a very large & strong child, if he decided to take off, I doubt I could hold him back. he turned 3 in march, he wears size 6 clothes.
We don't really use it anymore, he listens better now. but they are not just to keep him from taking off, they prevent kids from being taken as well.
My parents use a harness on me, and I am a very well adjusted adult. The important thing is to use the ones that go around the chest. I remember seeing the wrist band ones years ago and thinking that's a good way to break an arm.









daughter could tell time, we could all eat tonight. Sorry folks. She F'ed it up for everyone yet again." A true class act for all children who were around at the time to witness.
















Carlos leans forward and very nicely asks the guy to please turn the flash off, since it's quite distracting, etc. The guy looks back at Carlos and says "I don't speak English" with a fairly heavy Spanish accent. Nice try, pal. Carlos responds, "Oh si? *Spanishspanishspanish*" My hubs is bilingual and yet probably speaks better English than I do. In any case, our eyeballs were spared from Flashy Guy for the rest of the ride.